Everyone has baggage

Boy Suitcase Child Travel Kid Trip Fun TouWho does not have baggage? That’s the only question which pops into my mind when I ask a girl out on a date. Well, all of us do have some sort of baggage of our past. A number of us have done some disgraceful things that we are not proud of and definitely don’t want our fans to be a part of it. It may be anything, such as this guy I know, he had been in relationships with ten distinct girls and now when he finally found his love, he does not want to share a picture of his past life with his girlfriend for a fear of losing her.
To explain it further, this woman I knew was in jail once for a misdemeanor. But that does not mean that she’s still the same person. Surely she has to carry this until the last breath of her life.
Once we hit our 20’s, we’re too young to have any baggage. In fact, we should not worry about our dates when we enter 20’s. Rather I should say young 20’s is the time when we start gathering it to the future. But when we enter 30’s, we are full of it. We always tell our friends if we meet a new girl or boy, he or she is good but… To fill this but we’ve got lots of explanations, for example, she’s beautiful but she had three boyfriends in the past. She’s perfect but she is a bit old for me.
She is sexy, but she is not a virgin.
She is attractive, but she has a huge butt.
Is it even possible to ignore the past of the person and enjoy the gift?
Well, for one thing, it’s not impossible for certain.
Some people accept their past and move on while others repent about it forever. Like this guy I knew who gave an excellent example when I asked him about his break up, breaking up with her was the worst decision of my life and it took me three months to get over her and move on with my life but down the line I realized how strong I’ve become emotionally with the passing of time. It’s just a learning stage where I have learned to not to feel any difference between joy and sorrow.
This shows he does not care about the past rather he loves the burden of it.
Now the question arises, how do we manage to not let our past affect our present or future? Well, it is very simple yet complicated in many ways. The easy way is to move past it and enjoy the present life scenario with no burden of the past. Either that or you may allow your past be an obstacle in your way of happiness. The ball is always in your court, it’s just that you will need to accept and appreciate your own past. The moment we start seeing bags as avoidable as other things, the very existence of it’ll get extinct similar to polar bears these days.
So the trick to a happy life lies in being nonchalant with all the baggage you have been loading all your life. It is worth it.

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